Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Penalties for abundance


Ok. Polyfolk, I have a question. How many relationships/connections does a potential partner have to have before you decide that person is too busy or doesn't have enough time for you?

I ask this because I think that while a person may be poly, there is still a strong urge in most (if not all) of us to want to have a significant portion of a person's time if we're going to be romantically linked. And, I think that most people will make that snap judgement without consulting their person of interest.


Example:

"Oh, he's already seeing 2,643 women, he surely doesn't have time for me!"


What is that point for you? Or is the number of connections that someone has not even a factor for you?
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