Journals of a Polyamorous Triad

A couple months ago, I was at a poly meet where many newbies were present.  A strong theme was regarding how to keep yourself, and your exis...

Being poly doesn't mean being an emotional doormat to your partner's other relationships. We spend a lot of time in our pod co...

Lately, I've been writing some 101 articles for the blog; you can find them using the  poly101  label on the site. In this article, I...

    Some years ago I was talking about the personality type that enjoys conflict and chaos.  They (consciously or unconsciously) sew...

This recently came up at one of our polyamory discussion groups : Can you be in a polyamorous relationship without hurting anyone? Iro...

Many people, but certainly not all, seem to arrive in polyamory as part of an established couple.  They often have a high degree of enta...

Note:  I wrote this a few weeks ago, and sat on it for a while before posting.  The objective here is to give a glimpse inside of those time...

And please - feel free to swap out the pronoun: What makes  him  happy? Do you know? Are you sure? Have you asked? Are you clear? ...

When people are new to poly, they often have a "worst case scenario" that is to be avoided.  Most of the "rules" are d...

I’ve heard some polyfolk talk about jealousy as a wasted emotion and they go so far as to encourage others to suppress or igno...

One of the often overlooked things, particularly in the early stages of “going poly”, or when one is experiencing a surge of NRE, is tha...

With the wedding and family trip over, and D moved in, things are settling into a new trajectory for the household. It's a very positi...

For years now I've noticed that my happiest poly experiences involve partners who are comfortable with and enjoy sharing time with ...

Privilege : A right, immunity, or benefit enjoyed only by a person beyond the advantages of most. This word is bandied about pretty ...

When someone has been injured and they come in to see me for bodywork, it's a process of gradual improvement. There is generally a prett...