tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post4142372935739672595..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: Controlled burnUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-13285460094078446112009-07-19T11:18:17.407-07:002009-07-19T11:18:17.407-07:00Hi Vol!
Thank you for the comment. There are tim...Hi Vol!<br /><br />Thank you for the comment. There are times when things click really quickly, and some of the steps that build a connection get skipped. The great part is that one can still double-back and pick them up at a later time, if the desire is there to do some retro-fitting. <br /><br />Good luck with the continued health of the relationships you are in, and the ones that impact you as well. <br /><br />-Gina (polyfulcrum)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-24148091915106264452009-07-18T16:45:37.134-07:002009-07-18T16:45:37.134-07:00"Too often people get stuck in a relationship..."Too often people get stuck in a relationship by wanting it to be something different than it is, projecting that onto the relationship, and not recognizing that the model that is in their head and heart doesn't necessarily mesh with the reality of the relationship that they have."<br /><br />I couldn't agree more. It's nice when you find that the relationship you actually have its better than the one in your head. However, the reality is usually the opposite. We are going through something along those lines (as well as some other issues) right now and it can be difficult.<br /><br />We are a quad of two couples, my husband and his girlfriend--the wife of the other couple--are going through some major issues here. It could very well decide if their relationship continues or not. Not only do I have to watch the pain of him going through this, but it really affects my relationship with the other husband.<br /><br />He and I went so much slower in learning each other and letting each other in. But we have such a stronger relationship, based on who we really are, than my husband and she do.<br /><br />I really get a lot from your blog. One of the few things I read on a regular basis.<br /><br />Volourquadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17849396151175620226noreply@blogger.com