tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post3800330604713947418..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: Polyday GiftingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-5790768013358492802010-12-01T14:42:48.333-08:002010-12-01T14:42:48.333-08:00There's only one solution: a "Secret Sant...There's only one solution: a "Secret Santa" grab bag!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-36654256030983258022010-01-07T15:57:42.459-08:002010-01-07T15:57:42.459-08:00God, I am so glad my partner only has one signific...God, I am so glad my partner only has one significant girlfriend! Gift giving was easy this year :) Who knows what next Xmas will hold. . . :)LetsEatCakehttp://www.letseatcake.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-18546981828174741692009-12-13T16:30:08.531-08:002009-12-13T16:30:08.531-08:00Grin - yes, and that's a great gift but logist...Grin - yes, and that's a great gift but logistically (and emotionally) not feasible with many of my extended pod! I do like some of that, though, being spread around metamours and more intimate connections...<br /><br />And I like the home-made ideas the best, too, LTT... and I like your example here. Laugh - thanks - I'm glad you appreciated it. Now if I could only have 100 ideas just like that one, I'd be stoked... <br /><br />s1m0nAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-62693660517929598532009-12-12T16:16:44.373-08:002009-12-12T16:16:44.373-08:00hmm... you shared an idea a while back that was aw...hmm... you shared an idea a while back that was awesome ~ something about writing down special moments, little things your love does/did that touched your heart... capturing those moments and sharing them, with your appreciation and gratitude...?<br /><br />it seems like something similar might be perfect in the context of metamours too. with the premise that even if you don't know the metamours well, he/she is someone who has contributed to the growth and joy in your girlfriends' lives...<br />with the premise that their presence, love, perspectives, and qualities touch your love's heart, and by doing that, their feelings and actions towards/with your girlfriends also touch your heart...?<br /><br />maybe a note or homemade card or computer printed verse, conveying that ~ similar to the monthly note idea you shared previously...? (i *loved* that idea.)<br /><br />thinking out loud...<br /><br />"we don't know each other well, yet i see how your words, your perspectives, your qualities, your love have added to "susan's" life, joy, and heart.<br /><br />in touching her heart, you have touched mine. thank you for that. from my heart to yours, i am grateful." <br /><br />if you know the metamour a little bit better, then you can give a little thing they'd like with the appreciation card... if you'd don't really know the metamour well, then maybe insert a small heart trinket in the card, so it's a little symbolic something that adds to the appreciation note without breaking the bank...?<br /><br />cause umm.... your thankful idea was awesome, and it seems like it can just be used in different flavors pretty much anywhere. that's how awesome it was.livingtotearsnoreply@blogger.com