tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post2488278761448200268..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: When Poly Became About FamilyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-40942367814547911422012-11-16T16:52:29.751-08:002012-11-16T16:52:29.751-08:00Hey there, Dave -
We're not polyfidelitus (h...Hey there, Dave - <br /><br />We're not polyfidelitus (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyfidelity) if that's what you're asking; unlike those who practice polyfidelity, we date outside of our domestic sphere.<br /><br />When my wife and I built our place, we built it for a future with multiple others. Currently, her boyfriend lives with us, and we've got a roommate who neither of us are dating. <br /><br />I think having my wife's boyfriend living with us qualifies as "communal" but I do feel a pang of absence from time to time as my others live elsewhere. They live either with their own families or alone. Actually, one of my partners, Alisa, once brought up "rotation schedules" to stay at our place during the week. I liked the idea :)<br /><br />Myself, I'd like to see my partners under my roof to the greatest extent possible. That would feel ... closer. More communal. More interconnected and crafting our lives together. I think because there's a physical distance and separate expenses/living arrangements, where we're not all sharing a domestic burden, there's a difference between this and communal relationships. <br /><br />Great question... Thanks for reading -<br /><br />Russell<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-23553219375438805542012-11-15T21:44:21.255-08:002012-11-15T21:44:21.255-08:00How does your current relationship differ from com...How does your current relationship differ from communal living?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05868637377608995460noreply@blogger.com