tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post7919501310427000396..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: Avoiding the Me in PolyamoryUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-90483817830869456222013-10-16T17:36:52.534-07:002013-10-16T17:36:52.534-07:00This is a concise and well-written blog post that ...This is a concise and well-written blog post that hits on an important issue. Thanks for sharing it. I've seen my own and others' selfishness manifest in various ways in poly and non-poly relationships, and it's good to encourage people to be more aware of the part they are playing when they insist upon getting what they want and/or demonstrate ill-will or lack of respect for their partner(s) and metamours.Jessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-63217906488220856672013-10-13T21:50:10.192-07:002013-10-13T21:50:10.192-07:00"...If what you want becomes the last word an..."...If what you want becomes the last word and you've left no recourse for your partner..." then the only recourse you've left for them is to leave. You shouldn't be surprised if they take it.H.B.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-71948555100621634652013-10-08T06:52:33.894-07:002013-10-08T06:52:33.894-07:00Well, speaking for myself, I find that you can'...Well, speaking for myself, I find that you can't force anyone to do anything. You can, however, control you, and request more of what you want. If you're not getting it, maybe you should reevaluate the healthiness of the dynamic for you?<br /><br />Best wishes-<br />s1m0nAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-64060723003094412512013-10-07T18:22:16.211-07:002013-10-07T18:22:16.211-07:00What if you find yourself the only person in a tri...What if you find yourself the only person in a triad or quad who IS being open and honest? Is there a way to encourage or force the other players to be open?sinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082648132476803815noreply@blogger.com