tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post4417299592920637597..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: Poly 101: Equality and EquityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-32234590938540084832013-04-18T09:10:19.271-07:002013-04-18T09:10:19.271-07:00Great post! I get quite frustrated when people act...Great post! I get quite frustrated when people act as though healthy, balanced relationships are a matter of keeping score. And I particularly like that you brought up the point that sometimes things (everyday responsibilities, family emergencies etc) have to take first priority and that doesn't automatically make you an ass who treats their partners like objects. It's unrealistic to think that everything has to be equal all the time (in fact, your secondary might not even want the same deal as your primary has and vice versa).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-8665063000534553622013-04-18T09:09:35.527-07:002013-04-18T09:09:35.527-07:00Great post! I get quite frustrated when people act...Great post! I get quite frustrated when people act as though healthy, balanced relationships are a matter of keeping score. And I particularly like that you brought up the point that sometimes things (everyday responsibilities, family emergencies etc) have to take first priority and that doesn't automatically make you an ass who treats their partners like objects. It's unrealistic to think that everything has to be equal all the time (in fact, your secondary might not even want the same deal as your primary has and vice versa).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-21198865803224927742013-03-29T05:42:02.766-07:002013-03-29T05:42:02.766-07:00I usually just lurk but I do love this one. It'...I usually just lurk but I do love this one. It's not about fair is it?<br />-sinsinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082648132476803815noreply@blogger.com