tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post3604814101867174936..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: See it coming...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-10236738840499027112009-10-02T07:12:59.747-07:002009-10-02T07:12:59.747-07:00Oh my, I can so relate to you. I am much better no...Oh my, I can so relate to you. I am much better now regarding the amount of planning i need. I used to need great amounts of that. Then my children were in a wreck and one of them was very close to death. It made me stop and tell myself that I should just enjoy life as it came. I spent a couple of years trying to just go with the flow. I became stressed regarding different things that way. So, I've learned that I do have to have at least some structure. Finding the happy medium has been a problem and I am still working on that. <br /><br />Both my men can have a tendency to just go where they are lead. Gator, however, has been with me so long that he knows I really need some structure. Tech is starting to get that I go much better with not getting to see much of him if I have a date planned with him. Even if it is a month away. Just knowing I have a time to look to, that it won't be an indefinite time before I see him.<br /><br />The figuring out movies is so me as well. And I can understand how it looks silly in print. So what? We all have things we need it life and I feel I'm doing better at letting other ways to do things enter my life.<br /><br />VolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com