tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post2750618214132462035..comments2024-03-12T05:32:21.824-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: Shared TimeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-13924954467497531982011-10-27T14:56:47.548-07:002011-10-27T14:56:47.548-07:00Just discovered your blog, I couldn't agree mo...Just discovered your blog, I couldn't agree more about finding the wonderful little things we can do as a group. It's truly euphoric experience, last night we all dog piled and watched Zombie Land together.Daediushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06890708534769840952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-81230988865482169552011-07-09T17:55:11.282-07:002011-07-09T17:55:11.282-07:00great topic, close to my heart.So Gina and Misa......great topic, close to my heart.So Gina and Misa....so when you meet and decide to date someone...I know that it's good to be up front from the beginning about who you are and what your life is about and what you desire.....so Misa..is that when you ask the question about shared time ?Polyfulcrum, how about you ?And when you are just getting to know someone new....are you on alert about the person's words and behaviors that might indicate that they are not sure if they can do this.....?And honestly, sometimes we meet people and n0 matter what we do, we just don't like them.<br /><br />So on one hand you may Have to (or do you) cross your fingers when they meet your other partner(s).<br /><br />And lastly, should this happen, the two of them just don't like each other...what do you do ?If it is your current partner who does not like the new person...what do you do ?Then if the new person does not like your partner ? What on earth does one do ?designergrlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-54756776964439664542011-06-30T23:05:43.173-07:002011-06-30T23:05:43.173-07:00Polyfulcrum: some of the spur of the moment things...Polyfulcrum: some of the spur of the moment things we do: go to a farmers market and pick out foods that might work into subsequent dinner(s) that we have together. On warm days we bike to the beach and share a bottle of wine. We might go on a shopping trip for intimate apparel. Lately, many of our evenings are just sitting on the couch with our ongoing thread of small-talk like how our day went, our interests & concerns. In these little rites there is opportunity for us to share our feelings for each other. If I have any doubts or suspicions about one or the other, they are usually dissipated after we've been together because I get a feeling that they like me as much as I like them.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05868637377608995460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-70144113143427672082011-06-13T08:37:34.619-07:002011-06-13T08:37:34.619-07:00You are welcome, dave94! What are some of the acti...You are welcome, dave94! What are some of the activities that your triad enjoys together? <br /><br />Yes Misa, I agree. Doing the "separate sphere" relationships just takes too much bandwidth for me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-51689937279706321262011-06-09T17:08:35.988-07:002011-06-09T17:08:35.988-07:00I usually only date people who can handle "sh...I usually only date people who can handle "shared time" because otherwise, things get really difficult.Misahttp://www.practicingpolyamory.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-85676503308396000932011-06-06T11:58:54.793-07:002011-06-06T11:58:54.793-07:00The small, impromptu "get togethers" are...The small, impromptu "get togethers" are often overlooked as ways to solidify a poly relationship. Hanging out together without an agenda is a way for our triad to rebuild emotional ties. Thanks for introducing me to the term "compersion" - the opposite of jealousy!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05868637377608995460noreply@blogger.com