tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post1037890088021323303..comments2024-03-28T02:02:33.131-07:00Comments on Journals of a Polyamorous Triad: The Worst Case ScenarioUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-65294334518820476992012-09-04T17:00:23.686-07:002012-09-04T17:00:23.686-07:00Not comparing means not allowing yourself to notic...Not comparing means not allowing yourself to notice when there is a difference of amount. But amounts exist, and they can differ, and I have no idea how to make myself not notice something about my own experience.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04838690771544793851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-37890521185303421972012-06-03T12:45:57.850-07:002012-06-03T12:45:57.850-07:00I, too, have seen the worst and am still standing....I, too, have seen the worst and am still standing. My partner of 25 yrs has had a gf for the last 2 yrs. Neither of us knew of the other until 3 weeks ago. The betrayal and hurt I feel are overwhelming. I am still standing but only barely so. Thank you for your blog. When my mind starts dwelling on unhappy things your words bring me solace and hope.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7404345771022225541.post-83831620274741429152012-05-31T18:49:05.975-07:002012-05-31T18:49:05.975-07:00I applaud your candor and honesty. It is condition...I applaud your candor and honesty. It is conditioned in us from a young age to compare everything... cars, grades, emotions, events. But that same tendency in poly usually results in unfair comparisons. Each relationship is different - and it is sometimes challenging to not compare.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com